Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan used to adjust in every circumstance that came His way, without ever complaining.
If you know how to adjust with others, you will never experience any unhappiness or suffering in life and you will always have good relationships.
Nobody has ever been happy by making others miserable and we want to be happy by giving happiness.
In reality, everything has an end, so it is better to adjust and maintain your peace of mind.
Do not try to improve your spouse. Just accept them as they are.
Accept everyone the way they are, and do not try to change them. This becomes much more critical with family members.
You will sail through all difficulties in life if you adjust to anyone who fails to adjust with you.
He does not work and you become angry, so then you feel the hurt, so it is your mistake.
Do not harbor any prejudice towards anyone. Do not look at anyone's faults.Things will become clearer and less confusing if you understand this.
You have to pray to God to grant him right understanding. That is all you have to do, because he is only an 'instrument'.