Can we really change a person through Psychic Medium Readings The truth is this is the case but it's more of a honest reflection of the way life and relationship themselves unfold. Often we are dealing with the same things over and over, the same themes, the same issues, the same conflicts, the same dilemmas. Each time we go through a cycle we hope for a better understanding or more insight and awareness of what's happening . If only they called more.... Life ends up feeling like a spiral more than a straight line. One of the themes I have talked about before is how relationships are our mirrors to ourselves, how we view others, tells us more about ourselves than the people we are judging or forming opinions on. This is almost an instinctual habit in us that it's hard at times to really gain distance from, due to how frequently we go about this. In psychic readings the most common occurrence of this is when a person wants other person to be another way in order to make them feel more safe, secure or reassured. For instance someone we are in love with or involved with, becomes emotionally distant and stops communicating. This can then trigger a anxiety or feeling of unease that compels the person to want the other person to go back to the way they were before, to keep loving them or keep giving them the feeling that made them feel so good before. It is within the midst of these moments we have a golden opportunity to shift our perceptive, to bring to ourselves more happiness and more contentment. Its our thoughts not the other person that is the problem.. The thought They should call more often when we are faced with a reality that they don't and it appears they are not going to, creates a high level of stress and frustration .We put our focus into hoping and wishing they would do what we want. We want our internal discomfort to ease by an external reality that we have no say or no control over. We set ourselves up to feel stressed and unhappy just by the thought They should call more often which really translate They should do what I want ,to make me feel what I want. If we are able to examine this thought and put our focus not shifting reality but shifting the thought.