There were no pictures posted on his internet dating profile when he wrote to K.M. Lessing, wanting to start a relationship. He pretended to be "just a normal guy." With relentless texts and phone calls, the mysterious Muslim "virgin" wooed her and won her heart. He was sweet, he was "single," he was smitten with her. He wore only Western clothing when they talked on skype. He loved her so much he wanted to "lose his virginity" to her! After a few months, she found out it was all deception. The predator is married and the imam of Fatimiyya Islamic Center in Hayward, California. He is also a cleric at the Shia Association Of The Bay Area (SABA) in San Jose, California.